Capital-T Trauma & lower-case-t trauma

Capital-T Trauma & lower-case-t trauma

Trauma, in my mind, was reserved for those who had something REALLY REALLY BAD HAPPEN to them. But my stuff? It hurt but I got through it.

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Does God (Still) Heal?

Does God (Still) Heal?

Let’s think about something…think about your life…think about ways you have hurt or injured your body over the course of your lifetime. You may have scars, sure, but you’re not still bleeding from that papercut when you were ten.

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The Role of Women in Marriage

The Role of Women in Marriage

About six months into our marriage, I said to Richard, “I just realized, you have never once told me what to do.” And he said, “Why would I do that? We’re both in charge.”

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Reframe the Shame

Reframe the Shame

Can I give you a little red flag to look for? If you hear yourself should-ing yourself, you might be in shame territory.

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Toxic People

Toxic People

My definition of a toxic person is someone who is more bad for you than good for you, overall or even for a season; either in that they are hurting you or bringing out the worst in you, intentionally or unintentionally.

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Buzz's Story

Buzz's Story

I get asked all the time if my husband could write a post sharing his story. Here you go...

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