I Had Four Affairs

Sorry to disappoint. I didn’t sleep with four other men while I was married. But I did have emotional affairs with four men—secret crushes, thoughts of “what if,” and dangerous longings that I knew were wrong. I confessed to my husband, worked on it, and learned a hard truth: even unacted-on desires can be dangerous. Ladies, if you find yourself longing for someone who isn’t yours, stop. Run. Not one good thing comes from it.

What Does the Bible Say About Staying in a Difficult Marriage?

Explore what the Bible says about staying in a difficult marriage through a heartfelt personal reflection. Discover Scriptural insights on covenant, love, abuse, and when it may be right to let go.

Submission, Control, and Calling: A Christian Woman’s Honest Journey Through (and Out of) Complementarianism

Mutual submission in Christian marriage can be beautiful; one-sided submission can be deeply painful when misused. This raw, faith-filled reflection explores the complexities of complementarianism, control, and what it means to be equally loved and called by God as a woman.

From Compliance to Confidence: A Woman's Story of Reclaiming Her Voice

As a young Christian woman, she didn’t turn on the air conditioner when her boyfriend said no. Decades later, she's learning to choose herself—and her voice. This blog post explores submission, emotional freedom, and healing through faith after years of quiet compliance.

You Can’t Control Your Spouse: What I Wish I Knew Before Marriage

You won’t be able to control your spouse—or your marriage—the way you think you can. I wish someone had told me that at 21. Here’s what I’ve learned about control, heartbreak, growth, and the grace that meets us when marriage doesn’t go as planned.

Why Strong Christian Women Feel Like Doormats in Abusive Marriages — Finding Your True Voice and Healing

How can a strong, capable woman feel like a doormat in her own home? This honest reflection explores the confusing nature of abuse, the distortion of spiritual truths, and the brave path toward reclaiming your voice and identity in Christ.