The Role of Women in Marriage

About six months into our marriage, I said to Richard, “I just realized, you have never once told me what to do.” And he said, “Why would I do that? We’re both in charge.”

What You'd Put Up With

We sometimes let others tell us what to do that have no business telling us what to do.

Marriage is an Uncontrollable Thing

You don’t think you are controlling, but you are. You need to know going in that you will not be able to control your spouse or your marriage as much as you are hoping to.

I am Woman, Watch Me Get Walked On

Question: “I consider myself to be a strong woman in every other area of my life, so why am I such a doormat in my abusive marriage?”

If I Hear One More Time that All I Have to Do is Try Harder…

What do you do when you’re told to, basically, try harder in your really hard marriage?

Out of the Darkness: Exposing the Secret of Difficult Marriages in the Church

Difficult Christian marriages is one of the Church’s darkest, dirtiest secrets. I was not alone. We are everywhere. We are sitting in the pews. We are sitting in Bible studies. We are sitting in the front row as our husbands – the pastors – preach about biblical marriage to the congregation while we die inside.