Out of the Darkness: Exposing the Secret of Difficult Marriages in the Church

Difficult Christian marriages is one of the Church’s darkest, dirtiest secrets. I was not alone.  We are everywhere.  We are sitting in the pews.  We are sitting in Bible studies.  We are sitting in the front row as our husbands – the pastors – preach about biblical marriage to the congregation while we die inside.

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I Don't Trust My Husband

It is not your responsibility to singlehandedly re-trust someone who has broken your trust (despite what you may have been told).

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You Can Be in an Abusive Marriage and Not Know You're in an Abusive Marriage

I was stunned when my therapist gently suggested I might be in an abusive marriage...but she was right and it was time to make some changes.

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