Why Strong Christian Women Feel Like Doormats in Abusive Marriages — Finding Your True Voice and Healing

Why Strong Christian Women Feel Like Doormats in Abusive Marriages — Finding Your True Voice and Healing

How can a strong, capable woman feel like a doormat in her own home? This honest reflection explores the confusing nature of abuse, the distortion of spiritual truths, and the brave path toward reclaiming your voice and identity in Christ.

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When Christian Advice Feels Like Judgment: How to Handle Rejection and Find Real Support in Your Marriage

When Christian Advice Feels Like Judgment: How to Handle Rejection and Find Real Support in Your Marriage

What do you do when your marriage is falling apart and the church tells you to just "try harder"? I’ve been there. This is my story of misplaced guilt, perseverance, and ultimately, the freedom that comes from truth, accountability, and God's grace.

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Crazy Ex-Girlfriends & Bitter Ex-Wives

Crazy Ex-Girlfriends & Bitter Ex-Wives

I’ve been the crazy ex-girlfriend and the bitter ex-wife. I didn’t plan to be either. But pain—especially the pain of love lost—can shape us in ways we never expected. This is a raw invitation to reflect, release bitterness, and start healing.

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Becoming Wholehearted

Becoming Wholehearted

I’ve developed daily, weekly, monthly, and annual routines to care for myself spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally, and relationally. These habits help me live better, honor God, and build resilience—no matter your season, take what works for you.

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Tough Love in Christian Coaching: Hard Truths Every Woman Needs to Hear About Marriage, Divorce, and Dating

Tough Love in Christian Coaching: Hard Truths Every Woman Needs to Hear About Marriage, Divorce, and Dating

This is hard to say, but I’m not here to be your friend—I’m here to say the hard things no one else will. Biblical grounds for divorce aren’t about happiness or convenience. Pursue Jesus first, not a relationship. If I’ve been too gentle before, I’m sorry. Truth can be tough, but it’s necessary.

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How I Broke Free From a Season of Sadness

How I Broke Free From a Season of Sadness

After months in a funk and a mini-depression, therapy helped me radically reframe my thoughts and heal parts of myself I’d long ignored. Six weeks in, I’m feeling set free—and if I can change, you can too. Sometimes growth means taking a leap into the unknown.

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