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How can a strong, capable woman feel like a doormat in her own home? This honest reflection explores the confusing nature of abuse, the distortion of spiritual truths, and the brave path toward reclaiming your voice and identity in Christ.
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What do you do when your marriage is falling apart and the church tells you to just "try harder"? I’ve been there. This is my story of misplaced guilt, perseverance, and ultimately, the freedom that comes from truth, accountability, and God's grace.
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I’ve been the crazy ex-girlfriend and the bitter ex-wife. I didn’t plan to be either. But pain—especially the pain of love lost—can shape us in ways we never expected. This is a raw invitation to reflect, release bitterness, and start healing.
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I’ve developed daily, weekly, monthly, and annual routines to care for myself spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally, and relationally. These habits help me live better, honor God, and build resilience—no matter your season, take what works for you.
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This is hard to say, but I’m not here to be your friend—I’m here to say the hard things no one else will. Biblical grounds for divorce aren’t about happiness or convenience. Pursue Jesus first, not a relationship. If I’ve been too gentle before, I’m sorry. Truth can be tough, but it’s necessary.
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After months in a funk and a mini-depression, therapy helped me radically reframe my thoughts and heal parts of myself I’d long ignored. Six weeks in, I’m feeling set free—and if I can change, you can too. Sometimes growth means taking a leap into the unknown.
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