When God’s Peace & Comfort are Nowhere to Be Found: Finding Hope and Presence in Seasons of Spiritual Darkness

When God’s Peace & Comfort are Nowhere to Be Found: Finding Hope and Presence in Seasons of Spiritual Darkness

During my darkest season, I didn’t feel God’s peace or presence as I expected. But faith isn’t about feelings—it’s about trusting a faithful God who promises never to leave us, even when comfort feels absent. His presence sustains us through every trial.

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Does God Want Me to Stay in an Abusive Marriage? What the Bible Really Says About Suffering, Forgiveness, and “Turning the Other Cheek”

Does God Want Me to Stay in an Abusive Marriage? What the Bible Really Says About Suffering, Forgiveness, and “Turning the Other Cheek”

Does Jesus really want you to stay in an abusive marriage? The Bible calls us to forgive and love, but it also calls us to seek safety and justice. True faith means standing strong, setting boundaries, and not enduring avoidable suffering. God desires healing and wholeness, not endless pain.

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What I’d Tell a Newly Separated or Divorced Christian Woman: Healing, Anger, and Moving Forward Without Bitterness

What I’d Tell a Newly Separated or Divorced Christian Woman: Healing, Anger, and Moving Forward Without Bitterness

To the newly separated woman overwhelmed by pain and anger: you are not alone. Divorce is devastating, but healing is possible. Embrace grace, set healthy boundaries, lean on God, care for your children, and choose peace over bitterness. Every step forward is a victory on the road to freedom.

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What “God Hates Divorce” Really Means for Divorced Christian Women

What “God Hates Divorce” Really Means for Divorced Christian Women

“God hates divorce” is often misunderstood and misused in Christian culture, especially against those in painful marriages or post-divorce. In truth, God’s heart is against abuse and injustice, particularly the mistreatment of vulnerable wives, not the hurting individuals seeking freedom and grace.

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How to Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex-Husband

How to Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex-Husband

Detaching from an ex-spouse after years as “one flesh” is painful and takes time. Healing begins by taking thoughts captive, praying for severance of unhealthy ties, and filling your life with new, meaningful activities. Grace yourself—moving on starts in your mind and with intentional steps.

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3 Myths Christian Women Believe About Healing After Divorce (and What to Do Instead)

3 Myths Christian Women Believe About Healing After Divorce (and What to Do Instead)

Healing from divorce doesn’t happen by itself—time alone won’t fix the pain. True healing requires intentional reflection, God’s presence, and deep work beyond counseling or books. Avoid the bitterness trap, face your anger, and resist rushing into new relationships before you’re truly ready.

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