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Abuse isn’t always visible bruises or black eyes—it’s often hidden in words, control, and manipulation. Many strong, capable women live with abuse without realizing it. Recognizing the abuse wheel is the first step toward healing and safety.
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If you’re staying in a deeply painful Christian marriage, not out of fear or guilt but after prayerful consideration, there’s one vital step you may be missing: grieving the death of your marriage dreams. Here's how to process that loss with God so bitterness doesn’t take root.
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DO NOT GET ME WRONG: if you are in a difficult marriage and your husband is the “main culprit”, per se, through adultery or abuse or addiction, this is NOT a free pass to do nothing, or to sit around pointing your fingers. You have work to do. But hear me clearly: if this is your situation, I fully believe you are not the one who should be trying to win your spouse back. You just have another list.
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