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“God hates divorce” is often misunderstood and misused in Christian culture, especially against those in painful marriages or post-divorce. In truth, God’s heart is against abuse and injustice, particularly the mistreatment of vulnerable wives, not the hurting individuals seeking freedom and grace.
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Detaching from an ex-spouse after years as “one flesh” is painful and takes time. Healing begins by taking thoughts captive, praying for severance of unhealthy ties, and filling your life with new, meaningful activities. Grace yourself—moving on starts in your mind and with intentional steps.
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Healing from divorce doesn’t happen by itself—time alone won’t fix the pain. True healing requires intentional reflection, God’s presence, and deep work beyond counseling or books. Avoid the bitterness trap, face your anger, and resist rushing into new relationships before you’re truly ready.
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As a divorced Christian woman who waited until her wedding night to have sex again, I want to share the real struggle behind waiting—not because of culture, but because sex is a natural part of building intimacy in a loving relationship. Waiting is hard, but it’s possible and worth it.
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I’m a born-again Christian who lived through a very difficult Christian marriage—one filled with pain, silence, and secret struggles no one wanted to acknowledge. For years, I hid behind the perfect-faith façade while dying inside. But I’m here to say you’re not alone. These painful stories are happening in pews across the country, and it’s time the Church faces this reality with honesty and grace.
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Trust shattered by lies, gaslighting, and addiction isn’t easy to rebuild. It’s NOT your sole responsibility to restore trust—both partners must engage. The betrayer must own their mistakes, apologize sincerely, and commit to real change for healing to begin.
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