Elisabeth Klein Coach

How to Honor God, Yourself, and Your Marriage When Your Marriage Feels Broken

When your marriage feels broken, it can be hard to know what to do first—or how to even show up in a way that honors God, yourself, and your marriage. The tension, the unspoken hurts, the moments of silence that stretch too long—it all takes a toll. But honoring God doesn’t mean ignoring your pain, and honoring yourself doesn’t mean giving up on your marriage. It’s about small, steady choices: setting healthy boundaries, communicating with love, and seeking guidance in prayer and Scripture. It’s about recognizing your value as a beloved child of God while choosing grace and patience in your relationship. Even in the mess, there is a way to care for your heart, maintain integrity, and act in ways that reflect God’s love—even when your marriage feels like it’s falling apart.

Looking Back on 2025: Healing, Clarity, and Surrender

As 2025 draws to a close, I’ve been reflecting on a year that brought both heartbreak and healing—body, mind, and soul. My marriage softened, my health demanded surrender, my relationships required release, and writing became my worship again. Here’s what I’m carrying into the new year: gratitude, gentleness, and grace.

When the Holidays Hurt

When the world tells you to be merry and bright, but your heart feels heavy, you’re not alone. The holidays don’t make pain pause — they just decorate it. Whether you’re navigating divorce, grief, loneliness, or a season that simply doesn’t look the way you prayed, there are gentle, faith-rooted ways to walk through December without pretending it doesn’t hurt. This is a guide for the weary, the tender, and the ones doing their best to breathe through a hard Christmas.

You Are Not His Messenger: Learning to Let Go and Let God

In the early days of my divorce, I tried to fix and correct everything—especially when it came to my kids. But one gentle sentence from a friend changed everything: “You are not the messenger.” I wasn’t meant to play God in anyone’s life, and learning to step out of that role has been one of the hardest—and most freeing—lessons of my faith journey.

Fall Blahs & Winter Blues

When the sky turns gray and the days grow short, our moods can start to dim right along with them. If you find yourself feeling the seasonal blahs or blues, you’re not alone. I’ve battled the winter slump for years, and over time I’ve gathered simple, soul-nourishing practices that make a real difference. Here are my favorite gentle ways to lift your spirit and invite a little more light back into your days.

I Had Four Affairs

Sorry to disappoint. I didn’t sleep with four other men while I was married. But I did have emotional affairs with four men—secret crushes, thoughts of “what if,” and dangerous longings that I knew were wrong. I confessed to my husband, worked on it, and learned a hard truth: even unacted-on desires can be dangerous. Ladies, if you find yourself longing for someone who isn’t yours, stop. Run. Not one good thing comes from it.