Forgiveness Without Reconciliation: A Guide to Letting Go and Living Free

Forgiveness Without Reconciliation: A Guide to Letting Go and Living Free

Forgiveness doesn’t always lead to reconciliation—and that’s okay. In this honest post, a Christian coach for women explores what it means to forgive deeply, live at peace, and set others free without shame, guilt, or re-entering harmful relationships.

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Learning to Let Go: A Wife’s Honest Struggle with Control

Learning to Let Go: A Wife’s Honest Struggle with Control

As a Christian wife, I didn’t expect my husband’s retirement to bring anxiety—but it did. Here's my honest look at control, anxiety, and letting go, with practical steps for staying loving, not controlling, as our marriage enters a new season.

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A Sacred Goodbye and a Holy Hello: Grieving, Letting Go, and Starting Fresh with God

A Sacred Goodbye and a Holy Hello: Grieving, Letting Go, and Starting Fresh with God

I took a personal retreat to grieve old losses and consecrate what's ahead. With journaling, prayer, and symbolic rituals, I said goodbye to what has been and welcomed what's to come—holding fast to the truth that I have not escaped the notice of Jesus.

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You Can’t Control Your Spouse: What I Wish I Knew Before Marriage

You Can’t Control Your Spouse: What I Wish I Knew Before Marriage

You won’t be able to control your spouse—or your marriage—the way you think you can. I wish someone had told me that at 21. Here’s what I’ve learned about control, heartbreak, growth, and the grace that meets us when marriage doesn’t go as planned.

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Letting Go of the Rope: How I Stopped Living by Committee and Started Trusting God (and Myself)

Letting Go of the Rope: How I Stopped Living by Committee and Started Trusting God (and Myself)

For years, I lived by committee—first real people, then the voices in my head. I sought approval, direction, and permission for every major life move, including my separation. But healing came when I learned to let go of the rope and trust the Spirit within me.

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How I Handled My Divorce: What I Did Right, What I Regret, and What Jesus Taught Me

How I Handled My Divorce: What I Did Right, What I Regret, and What Jesus Taught Me

My divorce wasn’t amicable. It was painful and messy, but looking back, I can say I handled myself well—imperfectly, but well. In this post, I share the regrets I carry, the peace I chose, and the surprising ways Jesus showed up in the middle of the mess.

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