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As a Christian wife, I didn’t expect my husband’s retirement to bring anxiety—but it did. Here's my honest look at control, anxiety, and letting go, with practical steps for staying loving, not controlling, as our marriage enters a new season.
Continue readingI took a personal retreat to grieve old losses and consecrate what's ahead. With journaling, prayer, and symbolic rituals, I said goodbye to what has been and welcomed what's to come—holding fast to the truth that I have not escaped the notice of Jesus.
Continue readingFor years, I lived by committee—first real people, then the voices in my head. I sought approval, direction, and permission for every major life move, including my separation. But healing came when I learned to let go of the rope and trust the Spirit within me.
Continue reading“I’m not the one with the problem!” I cried through tears—until I realized I might be. This is the story of how sitting in an AlAnon meeting helped me see the truth, face my own pain, and begin a journey of healing I didn’t know I needed.
Continue readingI’ve developed daily, weekly, monthly, and annual routines to care for myself spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally, and relationally. These habits help me live better, honor God, and build resilience—no matter your season, take what works for you.
Continue readingThis is hard to say, but I’m not here to be your friend—I’m here to say the hard things no one else will. Biblical grounds for divorce aren’t about happiness or convenience. Pursue Jesus first, not a relationship. If I’ve been too gentle before, I’m sorry. Truth can be tough, but it’s necessary.
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