When Christian Advice Feels Like Judgment: How to Handle Rejection and Find Real Support in Your Marriage

What do you do when your marriage is falling apart and the church tells you to just "try harder"? I’ve been there. This is my story of misplaced guilt, perseverance, and ultimately, the freedom that comes from truth, accountability, and God's grace.

The Hidden Struggle of Christian Women in Abusive Marriages: Why the Church Must Do Better

I’m a born-again Christian who lived through a very difficult Christian marriage—one filled with pain, silence, and secret struggles no one wanted to acknowledge. For years, I hid behind the perfect-faith façade while dying inside. But I’m here to say you’re not alone. These painful stories are happening in pews across the country, and it’s time the Church faces this reality with honesty and grace.

How to Rebuild Trust After Betrayal

Trust shattered by lies, gaslighting, and addiction isn’t easy to rebuild. It’s NOT your sole responsibility to restore trust—both partners must engage. The betrayer must own their mistakes, apologize sincerely, and commit to real change for healing to begin.

You Can Be in an Abusive Marriage and Not Even Know It: What Every Christian Woman Needs to Understand

Abuse isn’t always visible bruises or black eyes—it’s often hidden in words, control, and manipulation. Many strong, capable women live with abuse without realizing it. Recognizing the abuse wheel is the first step toward healing and safety.

How to Grieve a Broken Christian Marriage While Choosing to Stay

If you’re staying in a deeply painful Christian marriage, not out of fear or guilt but after prayerful consideration, there’s one vital step you may be missing: grieving the death of your marriage dreams. Here's how to process that loss with God so bitterness doesn’t take root.

Do Not Try to Win Your Husband Back

DO NOT GET ME WRONG: if you are in a difficult marriage and your husband is the “main culprit”, per se, through adultery or abuse or addiction, this is NOT a free pass to do nothing, or to sit around pointing your fingers. You have work to do. But hear me clearly: if this is your situation, I fully believe you are not the one who should be trying to win your spouse back. You just have another list.