Heartbreak to Hope PDF guidebook

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For a limited time (through August 29), I am offering the Heartbreak to Hope e-course in PDF guidebook form for only $49!

If you’re a separated or divorced woman looking to not simply get through your divorce but to heal and even begin to hope again, then you probably already know that you won’t just magically wake up one day healed on your own.

And you probably already know that you can’t just get a divorce and jump back into the dating scene and think the grass will automatically be greener with some new guy down the road somehow.

And I wouldn’t be surprised if you’ve seen a friend or family member go through a divorce, and you watched them crash and burn, something you promised yourself you’d never do if you were ever in their situation.

And so I bet you already know that some intentional God-discovery and honest self-recovery work is needed to move yourself from heartbroken to healing.

So, if you’re ready to finally do the hard work of divorce recovery while avoiding all the potential pitfalls, here’s how we’ll get you there:

Module 1: Looking Back

We begin this process considering where we’ve come from relationally and what led us to where we are today. It’s foundational that we spend at least a little time looking back, searching for patterns in how we relate, especially with men. Our pasts have formed us, but do not define who we are or where we’re going.

Lesson: Your Childhood & All Other Men
Webcast: Our Past Does Not Define Us

Module 2: Looking at Your Present

We continue the process of defining relational / emotional / physical / spiritual reality, as we can only truly move forward when we’re honest with how things actually are right now. We prepare our hearts and minds to dig deep, first by tackling all the questions of why that we’re struggling with, sifting through distorted perceptions of hope, assessing how our life is truly going, as well as learning tangible tools to manage our stress and how to actually be okay with letting go of what we can’t change.

Lesson 1: All the Why’s
Webcast: We Have a Big Hope

Lesson 2: Defining & Accepting My Reality
Webcast: Owning Our Part

Lesson 3: Stress
Webcast: Surrendering the Unchangeables

Lesson 4: Self-Care
Webcast: Balancing Self-Care with Caring for Others & Self-Care vs Self-Destruction

Module 3: Looking In

We do a deep dive into the myriad of emotions that can leave a woman paralyzed or send her spiraling into poor choices. These are the emotions that scare us the most, that we tend to push down or pretend we’re not experiencing – loneliness, rejection, shame, anger. We will look them dead in the eye and name them to help remove their power of us. We can feel all of these things, but we’ll learn how to best work through them.

Lesson 1: Loneliness
Webcast: Jesus Is Not My Boyfriend

Lesson 2: Rejection & Abandonment
Webcast: We Are Already Completely Loved

Lesson 3: Failure & Shame
Webcast: Only One Opinion Matters

Lesson 4: Anger
Webcast: Stuffed Anger Will Turn Into Bitterness

Module 4: Looking Around & Ahead

We redefine old relationships and we begin creating newness.  We need to establish new ways of relating with our now former partner, which starts with the deep work of forgiveness. We’ll move into co-parenting which can be so tricky, as well as how to find new support as a single person in a couples’ culture, and we’ll actually allow ourselves to dream about our future, maybe for the first time in a very long time.

Lesson 1: Forgiveness
Webcast: Healing from the 3 A’s: Abuse, Addiction & Adultery

Lesson 2: Boundaries
Webcast: Children & Co-Parenting

Lesson 3: Finding Friendship & Support as a Single
Webcast: Who Needs You?

Lesson 4: Your Dreams & Goals
Webcast: To Stay Single or to Try Again? & You Have a Gift

Each lesson contains a reading and journaling exercises along with several webcast teaching links.

ALL FOR ONLY $49!