Why I Created Decision Time

For years, women came to me with the same question in slightly different forms:

Should I stay or should I go?

I understood the question because I had wrestled with it myself for years. When you're living inside a difficult marriage, emotions are high, advice is conflicting, and the stakes feel enormous. It's easy to become paralyzed by fear, confusion, and indecision.

I created Decision Time because I don't believe someone else should make this decision for you.

Instead, I want to help you slow down, get honest about your reality, consider your options, care for yourself well, and seek God's wisdom—prayerfully, wisely, thoughtfully, and methodically.

This isn't a resource designed to convince you to stay.

And it isn't designed to convince you to leave.

It's a place to step out of the fog, gather your thoughts, listen for God's direction, and begin moving forward with greater clarity and confidence.

What's Inside

Decision Time is thoughtfully organized into four weeks, each building on the one before it to help you move from confusion toward clarity and wise action.

Week One: Define & Accept Your Reality

Before you can make a wise decision, you have to know what you're actually dealing with. Take an honest look at your marriage, your husband, and your own role in the relationship—without minimizing his behavior or beating yourself up for your own.

Week Two: Stay or Go?

Explore the different paths available to you and honestly consider what each one might look like. Rather than giving you an answer, this week helps you prayerfully examine your options and begin identifying what you fear, what you hope for, and what you believe may be next.

Week Three: Gather Your Wits

Big decisions are difficult to make when you're depleted. Take an honest inventory of your physical, mental, relational, and spiritual health and begin making changes that will help you become the healthiest and strongest version of yourself as you discern what comes next.

Week Four: Emotions & Reactions

Learn to recognize your emotional patterns and respond differently in the middle of difficult conversations and painful circumstances. You'll explore anger, communication, manipulation, control, and other unhealthy dynamics while learning to respond with greater wisdom, self-control, and clarity.

Bonus: Ways to Get Help & Thrive

You don't have to navigate a difficult marriage alone. This bonus resource helps you think honestly about who you can trust, when to seek professional or pastoral help, how to talk honestly with your husband, and what it looks like to live a full life in the middle of a difficult season.

What Clients Have Said 

“If you are truly honest with yourself when taking the course then you will gain valuable insight into your personal life not just your married life.” — Course participant

“When taking any course you will find that Elisabeth consistently points you towards Christ and DOES NOT take a side.” — Course participant

Ready to Begin?

If you're tired of feeling stuck, confused, or afraid of making the wrong decision, Decision Time will give you space to slow down, seek God, examine your options, and take your next step with greater clarity and confidence.

$79 USD