You Won’t Always Feel This Way

Ever feel or think or say or journal or pray (or scream) the following… I feel like a failure. I feel done. I feel unloved. I feel like I will be alone forever. I feel irreversibly broken. I feel like I hate my ex-husband. I feel like I messed up my children. I...

Getting through the Holidays

Are you in a hard marriage? Are you separated? Are you divorced? Are you a single mom? Are you dreading holiday gatherings? Are you dreading not having plans on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day or New Year’s Eve? Are you dreading not being able to do your years’-long...

Do You Feel Alone?

Do you feel alone? I get it, I really do. Because deep down, I used to as well…for a very long time. When I was in my hard marriage, ohmylands, no one understood me. I’d drop bits and pieces of my reality into a conversation and either get blank stares in...

I’m Divorced & I Hate My Life

Someone actually typed the following sentence into Google and wound up on my website: 47 divorced female hate my life This makes me so very sad.  Now, I don’t consider myself to be an optimistic person (total realist) or a Pollyanna (I want to strangle people who try...